Toplumumuzda gelin ve damad\u0131n evlenme karar\u0131 almas\u0131yla birlikte gelenekselle\u015fmi\u015f ve her b\u00f6lgeye \u00f6zg\u00fc\u00a0 adetlerimizi hemen g\u00fcn y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131karmaya ba\u015flar\u0131z. D\u00fcnyada ve \u00fclkemizin her b\u00f6lgesinde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00f6ncesinde, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bitiminde \u00e7e\u015fitli etkinlikler yap\u0131l\u0131r.\u00a0Bunlar\u0131n baz\u0131lar\u0131 da b\u00f6lgesel farkl\u0131l\u0131klar g\u00f6steren gerdek gecesi<\/a> adetleri<\/strong>dir.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
$\"Dinimizde$
Dinimizde Gerdek Gecesi Adetleri Nelerdir?<\/p><\/div>\n
<\/span>Dinimizde Gerdek Gecesi Adetleri Nelerdir?<\/span><\/h2>\n
Gerdek gecesi adetleri dinimizde <\/strong>ana hatlar\u0131 ile belirlenmi\u015ftir. Gerdek gecesi \u00f6ncesinde \u00e7iftler aras\u0131nda dini nik\u00e2h k\u0131y\u0131l\u0131r. Dini nik\u00e2h\u0131n ne zaman k\u0131y\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 b\u00f6lgeden b\u00f6lgeye de\u011fi\u015fiklik g\u00f6stermektedir. Baz\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerde gelin evden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, baz\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerde gerdek gecesi<\/strong>nden hemen \u00f6nce baz\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerde ise aileler tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi dini nik\u00e2h k\u0131y\u0131l\u0131r. Dini nik\u00e2h k\u0131y\u0131lma esnas\u0131nda sadece \u015fahitler ve taraflar\u0131n temsilcilerinin nik\u00e2hta bulunulmas\u0131 istenir. Evlili\u011fin ba\u011flanmamas\u0131 ve bozulmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in dini nik\u00e2h k\u0131y\u0131l\u0131rken k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli insanlar\u0131n ortamda bulundurulmamas\u0131na dikkat edilir.<\/p>\n
Muratlar\u0131na eren \u00e7iftin bu gece iki rekat gerdek gecesi namaz\u0131 k\u0131lmalar\u0131 \u00f6nerilir. Ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 k\u0131labilecekleri birlikte de bu namaz\u0131 eda edebilirler. Yine namazlar\u0131n\u0131n sonunda birlikte amin diyecekleri gibi ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 da dua edebilirler.<\/p>\n
\u0130li\u015fki \u00f6ncesinde besmele \u00e7ekmek, cinsel birle\u015fme esnas\u0131nda da tamamen \u00e7\u0131plak olmamak yine \u0130slama g\u00f6re gerdek gecesi dikkat edilmesi gereken hususlar<\/strong>dand\u0131r.<\/p>\n
$\"Gerdek$
Gerdek Gecesi Damat Daya\u011f\u0131 Nedir?<\/p><\/div>\n
<\/span>Gerdek Gecesi Damat Daya\u011f\u0131 Nedir?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
D\u00fcnya evine giren damad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ak\u015fam\u0131 damada \u00e7e\u015fitli \u015fakalar, oyunlar ve g\u00f6revler verirler. Bek\u00e2rl\u0131\u011fa veda eden damada yap\u0131lan gerdek gecesi adetlerin baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekildedir;<\/p>\n
Anadolu’da gerdek gecesi<\/strong> adetleri incelendi\u011finde gerde\u011fe girmek \u00fczere olan damad\u0131n yumruklanmas\u0131<\/strong> ve odaya g\u00f6nderilmesi yayg\u0131n olarak yap\u0131lan gerdek gecesi <\/strong>adetidir. Damad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131 ve yak\u0131nlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan bu hareketle damad\u0131n heyecan\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve damad\u0131n gerde\u011fe haz\u0131r oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelir.\u00a0 Damada vurma i\u015flemi esnas\u0131nda ‘ Allah i\u015fini rast getirsin, bol \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n olsun.’ \u015feklinde temennilerde de bulunulur. \u00dclkemizde damada yap\u0131lan gerdek gecesi adetlerinin baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yledir:<\/p>\n
Damada d\u0131\u015farda yumruklama i\u015flemi yap\u0131l\u0131rken aile taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6revlendirilen bir kad\u0131n da geline iki rek\u00e2t namaz k\u0131ld\u0131r\u0131r. Damat odaya geldi\u011finde ise kad\u0131n damad\u0131n namaz\u0131n\u0131n bitmesini bekler.\u00a0 Daha sonra kad\u0131n damada ‘ Gelini sana, seni\u00a0Allah’a \u0131smarlad\u0131m.’<\/strong> der ve kad\u0131n odadan \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n
Artvin ve \u00e7evresinde gerdek gecesi \u00e2deti<\/strong> olarak damat geline bah\u015fi\u015f verir ve duva\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ar. Bu esnada ayakta olan \u00e7iftler birbirlerinin ayaklar\u0131na basmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Kim \u00f6nce di\u011ferinin aya\u011f\u0131na basarsa evlilikte onun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn daha bask\u0131n\u00a0 olaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131l\u0131r. Baz\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerde ise gerdek gecesini tamamlayabilen damat t\u00fcfek ile ilan eder.<\/p>\n
$\"Gerdek$
Gerdek Gecesi Gelinin Aya\u011f\u0131 Y\u0131kan\u0131r M\u0131?<\/p><\/div>\n
<\/span>Gerdek Gecesi Gelinin Aya\u011f\u0131 Y\u0131kan\u0131r M\u0131?<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\nGerdek gecesi adetlerinden yayg\u0131n olarak bilinen damad\u0131n, gerdek gecesi gelinin aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131kamas\u0131d\u0131r.\u00a0 Bu konu ile ilgili kimileri Peygamber<\/a> efendimizin hadisi oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylese de kimileri ise bunun hadis de\u011fil, uydurma oldu\u011funu ileri s\u00fcrmektedir. Efendimizin s\u00f6yledi\u011fi iddia edilen hadis \u015fu \u015fekildedir: \u201c’Ya Ali! Gelini evine g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman, \u00e7orab\u0131n\u0131 aya\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar. Ayaklar\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131ka. O suyu evin b\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6\u015felerine sa\u00e7. B\u00f6yle yap\u0131nca Allah, senin evinden yetmi\u015f t\u00fcrl\u00fc fakirli\u011fi d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. Yetmi\u015f t\u00fcrl\u00fc bereketi evine dahil eder. Yetmi\u015f rahmeti sana nazil k\u0131lar. O gelin ile ve onun bereketi evin k\u00f6\u015felerine eri\u015fir. O gelin, delilikten ve di\u011fer hastal\u0131klardan emin olur.’<\/p>\n
Toplumumuzda geline yap\u0131lan gerdek gecesi adetlerinden baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise \u015f\u00f6yledir;<\/strong><\/p>\n
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Gerdek gecesi<\/strong> gelin odas\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclmeden \u00f6nce ibri\u011fe konulmu\u015f suyu sa\u011f aya\u011f\u0131 ile d\u00f6ker. Bu gelene\u011fin amac\u0131 gelinin i\u015flerinin rast gitmesidir.\u00a0 Bereket getirmesi i\u00e7in gelinin eline Kuran-\u0131 Kerim, i\u015f sever olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in s\u00fcp\u00fcrge tutu\u015fturulur. Sokaklarda gezmesin, evine ba\u011fl\u0131 kad\u0131n olsun, akl\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na toplas\u0131n diye gelinin ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bacan\u0131n kenar\u0131na hafif\u00e7e de\u011fdirilir.<\/li>\n
Eski\u015fehir y\u00f6resi de gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong>nde gelinin koltu\u011funun alt\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan ekmek di\u015fi a\u011fr\u0131mas\u0131n diye herkese da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r.<\/li>\n
Bir ba\u015fka gerdek gecesi \u00e2deti<\/strong>nde ise gelin kendi odas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 3 kere yalar ve ard\u0131ndan ka\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 arkaya do\u011fru atar. E\u011fer ka\u015f\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcyse gelinin r\u0131zk\u0131 ve nasibinin a\u00e7\u0131k olaca\u011f\u0131na, e\u011fer kas\u0131k kapal\u0131 d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcyse gelinin eve kapanaca\u011f\u0131 \u015feklinde yorumlan\u0131r.<\/li>\n
Sivas ve \u00e7evresinde gelin ata bindirilir. Attan inip evine do\u011fru yakla\u015fan gelin d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya k\u0131zg\u0131n bir ka\u015f\u0131k atar. Bunun amac\u0131 gelinin evine ba\u011fl\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamakt\u0131r. Gelin evine tatl\u0131l\u0131k getirsin diye e\u015fikten ge\u00e7erken \u00fcst e\u015fi\u011fe \u015ferbet veya bal s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr. Gelin gerdek gecesi<\/strong> odas\u0131na giderken \u00e7ocu\u011funun o\u011flan olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in kuca\u011f\u0131na erkek \u00e7ocuk\u00a0 verilir.<\/li>\n
Artvin ve \u00e7evresinde gerdek gecesi adetlerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda gelin, elini 3 kez kap\u0131 e\u015fi\u011fine vurur ve kaynanas\u0131n\u0131n aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131na koydu\u011fu barda\u011f\u0131 k\u0131rar.<\/li>\n
Yozgat ve \u00e7evresinde e\u011fer gelin ayn\u0131 eve gelin gelmi\u015fse kaynanas\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ge\u00e7mesi i\u00e7in gelin kaynanas\u0131n\u0131n ayaklar\u0131n\u0131n aras\u0131ndan ge\u00e7er. Evde u\u011fursuzlu\u011fun kaybolmas\u0131 i\u00e7in de gerdek gecesinde \u00e7\u00f6mlek ya da testi k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r.<\/li>\n
\u0130\u00e7el y\u00f6resinde gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong>nde, gelin erkek evine geldi\u011finde yemek kazan\u0131n\u0131n etraf\u0131nda 3 kere dola\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Gerdek gecesi adetleri nelerdir? sorunun cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdi\u011fimizde yap\u0131lan t\u00fcm davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n temelinde bereket, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden korunma, k\u0131smet\u00a0 ve huzur temennisi yatar.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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Gerdek gecesi gelenekleri<\/strong>nden bir ba\u015fkas\u0131 da \u00e7ar\u015faf g\u00f6sterme merasimidir. Gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong>nden olan \u00e7ar\u015faf beklentisi T\u00fcrk toplumunda var olan bir adettir.<\/li>\n
T\u00fcrkmen oymaklar\u0131nda, k\u0131z ve erkek evinden iki\u015fer yenge gerdek sabah\u0131 gelinle damad\u0131 \u00e7imdirme g\u00f6revi \u00fcstlenir.<\/li>\n
Gerdek sabah\u0131 mahallenin b\u00fct\u00fcn kad\u0131nlar\u0131 toplanarak gelinin kanl\u0131 \u00e7ar\u015faf\u0131na bakmaya gelirler. Mahalle kad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7ar\u015fafa para atarlar. \u00c7ar\u015faf\u0131 g\u00f6ren kad\u0131nlar ellerine ald\u0131klar\u0131 sopayla damad\u0131 d\u00f6vmeye ba\u015flarlar.<\/li>\n
U\u015fak ve \u00e7evresinde ise gerdek gecesi<\/strong> tamamland\u0131ktan sonra evin b\u00fcy\u00fck han\u0131m\u0131na \u00e7ar\u015faf g\u00f6sterilir ve k\u0131z evine m\u00fcjdeli haber verilir. Baz\u0131 y\u00f6relerde ise yenge k\u0131z evine \u00e7ar\u015faf\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcrerek bah\u015fi\u015f al\u0131r<\/li>\n
Baz\u0131 y\u00f6relerde ise gerdek gecesi<\/strong> sabah\u0131nda damat, pencereden havaya do\u011fru bir iki el ate\u015f eder. Damat sabah namaz\u0131nda arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile gider ve cemaatin elini \u00f6per.<\/li>\n
Sivas y\u00f6resinde k\u00f6y\u00fcn ya\u015fl\u0131 kad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u00e7ar\u015faf\u0131 al\u0131p ilahiler okuyarak k\u00f6yde t\u00fcm kap\u0131lar\u0131 dola\u015f\u0131p \u00e7ar\u015faf\u0131 g\u00f6sterirler.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
Nesilden nesile aktar\u0131lan gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong>nin baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde hala yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir. Gelin ve damad\u0131n aileleri ve yak\u0131nlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan bu adetlerle mutlu bir yuva kurulaca\u011f\u0131, e\u015flerin birbirine ba\u011fl\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131, evin b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn ge\u00e7erli olaca\u011f\u0131 iste\u011fi ve beklentisi vard\u0131r. Gerdek gecesi gelenekleri T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de bu gibi rit\u00fceller \u00fczerinden b\u00f6lgelere g\u00f6re ufak tefek farkl\u0131l\u0131klar g\u00f6sterirken \u00fclkelere bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda tuhaf gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong> oldu\u011fu ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
$\"\u0130lgin\u00e7$
\u0130lgin\u00e7 Ve Tuhaf Gerdek Gecesi Adetleri<\/p><\/div>\n
<\/span>\u0130lgin\u00e7 Ve Tuhaf Gerdek Gecesi Adetleri<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
Birazdan okuyacaklar\u0131n\u0131za inanamayabilirsiniz ancak bu tuhaf gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong>ni d\u00fcnyada uygulayanlar var. En ilgin\u00e7 olan adetleri \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131ralayabiliriz:<\/p>\n
Guam\u2019daki gerdek gecesi adetinde bakirelik kad\u0131nlara yasak. Yani kad\u0131n, evlenmeden \u00f6nce bu adeti yerine getirmek i\u00e7in k\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 para kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bozdurmak zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131l\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcney Kore\u2019de bizi falaka gelene\u011fi kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131yor. Gerdek \u00f6ncesinde damat arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan falakaya yat\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. Bunu da damad\u0131n cinsel g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc artt\u0131raca\u011f\u0131na olan inan\u00e7la yaparlar.<\/p>\n
Bir di\u011fer garip gerdek gecesi adetleri<\/strong>nin merkezi \u00c7in. Gelinin para kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda misafirlere g\u00f6\u011fs\u00fcn\u00fc elletmesi gelene\u011fine dair sosyal medyaya d\u00fc\u015fen video g\u00fcndem olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
Tayvan\u2019\u0131n baz\u0131 kesimlerinde ise gelin ilk olarak, damad\u0131n se\u00e7ece\u011fi bir arkada\u015f\u0131 veya akrabas\u0131 ile cinsel ili\u015fkiye girer.<\/p>\n
Newlyweds\u2019se ise d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bitiminde ortaya bir hal\u0131 veya has\u0131r serilir. \u00c7ift ilk ili\u015fkiye t\u00fcm misafirlerin g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00f6n\u00fcnde girer. Bu gelene\u011fin kayna\u011f\u0131 evlili\u011fin bereketinin artaca\u011f\u0131na olan inan\u00e7t\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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